User blog comment:Madkatmaximus/pronouns/@comment-25282327-20150105210530

....Sorry, I just can't do this. I wont slam you for asking this, but you've been a male for far too long in my mind for that to change at this point. While this may be important to you, this seems pretty silly to me, and I probably wont be able to remember anyway. Cay is still a girl in my mind, and I've always referred to her as one. The same is gonna happen for you. I don't mean to be offensive or disrepectful in anyway, I'm just telling you how it is for me.