User blog comment:Riolu777/The Five Rules of This Wiki That you All Must Follow to be Awesome./@comment-3003185-20120921184536/@comment-3003185-20120925015435

People aren't disrespectful only because they're in a bad mood; for most people, that's just how they are. If you show them what they're doing to other people, they won't like it on the other end of the stick.

I, unfortunately, have learned that kindness does not always work; people with hard hearts and closed minds will only take advantage of your kindness.

You are mistaking it for showing hatred toward a person, which, as you said, certainly DOES NOT work.