User:Slicer Vorzakh/ChatLogs/27 July 2016

 [03:15]  They arent supportive towards her at al [03:15]  so it's verbal and emotional abuse, not physical? [03:15]  Which makes me wonder why she doesnt want anything to happen to them [03:16]  She says her dad grabs her arms sometimes very aggressively [03:16]  which isnt cool as she's almost 16 years old [03:16]  if it's not physical abuse and you don't want to go against her wishes, are there some trusted third parties? adult friends? pastor? [03:17]  It used to cause her to be suicidal but she did see someone for it [03:17]  there needs to be some form of intervention, if not by the law or the government, then someone else [03:17]  She doesnt want to tell them the whole story because shes afraid they'll do something [03:17]  that's bad [03:17]  And idk what to do to help her [03:18]  I would encourage her to tell her full story to trusted adults [03:18]  does anyone have any idea on how to use the Template? :P [03:18]  It doesn't work :P [03:18]  She's been considering telling her neighbors because shes really close with them but theyre also really close to her parents so they may tell her, she doesnt know [03:18] <Avalair> *tell them [03:19] <Avalair> Customs was removed as it violates ToU [03:19] <Obi the LEGO Fan> give her the positive affirmation she doesn't get from her parents, etc [03:19] <Avalair> She wants to wait it out, but 3 years is a long time [03:19] <Obi the LEGO Fan> can't she leave at 18? [03:19] <Avalair> and Im afraid she'll get suicidal again [03:19] <Avalair> Yeah, but still, 2 years [03:20] <Obi the LEGO Fan> she should confide in a professional probably, like a counselor or a pastor, not family friends who might tell her parents [03:20] <Avalair> Yeah [03:20] <Avalair> Would a counselor talk to her parents about her problems? [03:21] <Avalair> Because she has tried speaking up to her parents herself but they tell her shes being overdramatic and is ungrateful, etc. [03:21] <Avalair> And continue treating her the same way [03:21] <Obi the LEGO Fan> not if you find the right counselor [03:21] <Avalair> Also her parents will question why shes going to a counselor [03:21] <Marshal6000> what does ToU stand for? :P [03:21] <Avalair> And she doesnt know what to say [03:21] <Obi the LEGO Fan> can she drive / can you drive / can someone provide her transportation to get to a counselor without parental knowledge? [03:21] <Avalair> Terms of Use [03:22] <Marshal6000> Ok [03:22] <Marshal6000> :P [03:22] <Avalair> Not without her parents knowing [03:22] <Marshal6000> how did it violate it? [03:22] <Avalair> They even installed a tracking thing on her phone [03:22] <Obi the LEGO Fan> couldn't you say it was a friend hangout or stuff? [03:22] <Avalair> So she's really in a tight spot [03:22] <Obi the LEGO Fan> wow [03:22] <HyperFlash Studios> There's a customization policy, Marsh [03:22] <Marshal6000> oh. [03:22] <Marshal6000> OK [03:22] <Marshal6000> :P [03:22] <Obi the LEGO Fan> leave the phone at your house, then go [03:22] <HyperFlash Studios> When Customs was first around the policy wasn't (derp) [03:23] <Avalair> I'm trying to get her to come to my youth group but her parents refuse to drive her there [03:23] <Marshal6000> (derp3) [03:23] <Avalair> Because I know my pastor would talk to her [03:23] <Obi the LEGO Fan> any other way for her to get there? [03:23] <Avalair> Her neighbors are a possibility [03:23] <Obi the LEGO Fan> what about your folks? [03:24] <HyperFlash Studios> o/ [03:24] <Avalair> I get a carpool myself so I'm not sure [03:25] <Obi the LEGO Fan> oh do you not go with your parents? [03:25] <Obi the LEGO Fan> hmm [03:26] <AmazingPythor> o/ [03:26] <Avalair> There's another girl at my youth group who lives closer to her and is actually close friends with her as well but apparently my friend's crazy parents dont trust the other girl's parents [03:26] <Avalair> Like I want to help but there is just so many obstacles preventing me from helping her [03:27] <Obi the LEGO Fan> have you talked to your parents about this? [03:27] <Avalair> No [03:27] <Avalair> I'm kinda scared to [03:28] <Obi the LEGO Fan> why what kind of reaction do you fear? [03:32] <Bioniclefan1> o/ [03:32] <Impossibubbles> keps o/ [03:33] <HyperFlash Studios> Yay this page is updated [03:33] <HyperFlash Studios> LEGO Message Boards Wiki:Emoticons [03:33] <Keplers> Ey bubbles [03:34] <Impossibubbles> how are you? [03:41] <Bioniclefan1> Someone give me a good Phineas and Ferb song to listen to. [03:41] <Obi the LEGO Fan> (sonic) [03:41] <Bioniclefan1> testing? [03:41] <Bioniclefan1> Ah there we go. [03:41] <HyperFlash Studios> Thx Obi [03:41] <Obi the LEGO Fan> g2g [03:41] <HyperFlash Studios> \o [03:41] <Bioniclefan1> o/ [03:42] <Impossibubbles> Dinco Miniature Golfing Queen [03:43] <HyperFlash Studios> What [03:43] <Bioniclefan1> Sounds promising. xD [03:43] <HyperFlash Studios> Oh [03:43] <Bioniclefan1> and ty [03:44] <Bioniclefan1> o/ [03:44] <HyperFlash Studios> Hey Coggs o/ [03:44] <HyperFlash Studios> hmm brb [03:44] <Impossibubbles> I dunno why, but I just like that one [03:45] <Bioniclefan1> I think my favorite one is the Weaponry song. [03:45] <Impossibubbles> that visit was short lived [03:47] <AmazingPythor> (sonic) [03:47] <AmazingPythor> How quaint. [03:48] <Impossibubbles> what [03:48] <Impossibubbles> I don't see anything [03:48] <AmazingPythor> Refresh. [03:48] <Impossibubbles> That seems very useless [03:49] <HyperFlash Studios> The large majority of our emotes are very useless [03:49] <Bioniclefan1> I like it. [03:49] <HyperFlash Studios> We have them anyway (derp4) [03:49] <Impossibubbles> This is just especially so [03:49] <AmazingPythor> Well it's good for conveying impatience. [03:49] <Impossibubbles> (ys) [03:49] <HyperFlash Studios> At least it's not [03:50] <HyperFlash Studios> (kutie) [03:50] <Keplers> can someone tell me why we care about emotes' "importance" [03:50] <Keplers> I mean for crying out loud they're basically jokes [03:51] <Impossibubbles> xD [03:51] <Keplers> (sonic) [03:51] <Keplers> I mean [03:51] <SamanthaNguyen1116> we still love them anyways :P [03:51] <Keplers> It's kinda annoying to see the tapping foot [03:51] <Keplers> But meh? :P [03:53] <Bioniclefan1> When did we get Sonic as a emote? [03:53] <Impossibubbles> Since I'm going to be a technical writer, probably writing instruction manuals or something, I kind of want to write a sarcastic instruction manual xD [03:53] <Impossibubbles> and be that guy [03:54] <HyperFlash Studios> Recently, Bio [03:54] <SamanthaNguyen1116> ahhh bubbles thats perfect :P [03:55] <Bioniclefan1> I'm surprised it got passed